Why a tolerance for messiness discomfort is essential in our relationships

Why a tolerance for messiness discomfort is essential in our relationships | Louise Gulley, Relationship Counselling & Psychotherapist in Sevenoaks, Kent

Relationships are not without challenges. We will inevitably feel hurt or uncomfortable at some point in all relationships. Relationships require a tolerance for messiness, imperfection and discomfort. Perfectionism is not a plausible concept in relationships. Partners will disagree.Some topics will be irreconcilable. Our ability to tolerate this is the key to beginning and maintaining relationships. […]