Relationship counselling services for individuals and couples seeking deep and fulfilling relationship

Welcome, I’m Louise. I’m a fully qualified and BACP registered individual and couple counsellor specialising in relationship challenges; whether you’re struggling in the relationship you’re in, or have never had a romantic relationship.

I work with individuals and couples online and in Sevenoaks (Kent) to find more insight into their relational patterns and create robust, connected and fulfilling relationships.

I’m warm, gutsy, straight talking and kind.

I’ll take the risk of saying something I think you won’t like, if I think it will really help you.

I find sometimes a bit of humour goes a long way in our work together.

There’s not much that shocks or scares me. There’s no topic that’s off the table.

I find this approach helps you develop much greater self awareness. This means you’re not operating in the dark anymore, wondering why you’re feeling this way. Greater self awareness if one of the key ways you can have deeper and more rewarding relationships.

I also finds this approach helps people feel supported in such a way that they are ready to do things differently in their lives.

I can help you with...

Couples counselling

You’re struggling in your relationship and need some robust support and guidance to create more intimacy and connection. 

Premarital counselling

Premarital counselling is an opportunity to understand your relationship, as well as constructively exploring your expectations and beliefs about marriage or a long term relationship. 

Struggling to find a romantic relationship

You’ve not had much (or any) sexual or romantic experience and feel a profound sense of loneliness, and lack of confidence around dating and relationships. You may find yourself starting to question whether it will ever happen for you.

Relationship anxiety

You’re in a relationship and find yourself repeatedly ruminating over it and wondering if you have chosen the right partner. You may also be dealing with loss of attraction and sexual desire.

Break up and divorce

You’re in pain and feeling stuck; you’d like to understand and process how it happened. You may also be torn about staying or leaving the relationship. I work with this both in individual and couple counselling.

Affairs & betrayal

Whether it’s their cheating or betrayal or yours you’re probably confused as to how you got to this place. Sometimes it is the case that you have been sleepwalking through your relationship for a while and something was off before the betrayal. I work with this issue both in individual and couples therapy.

Recurring relationship patterns

Relationships keep ending. Perhaps somewhere you‘re concerned that it might be something you‘re doing. I work with you individually to explore and work through the roots cause of these patterns.

General counselling & psychotherapy

I‘m trained to work with most issues; from anxiety, stress, depression and loss. Much of the material we work with in counselling and psychotherapy is linked.

Louise Gulley - Relationship Counselling Services & Psychotherapy Services

Not only do I focus on relationships, I can also help you:

  • Feel assertive and confident at work.
  • Feel joy and ease in your life.
  • Gain a sense of where to go next.
  • Feel freed from the past.
  • Resolve distractions so that you can excel and focus at work.
  • Develop a new, more ‘positive’ voice in your head.
  • Feel like there’s hope again, and that you have more choices.
  • Discover a life the other side of what you’re feeling.