Welcome, I’m Louise. I’m a fully qualified and BACP registered individual and couple counsellor specialising in relationship challenges; whether you’re struggling in the relationship you’re in, or have never had a romantic relationship.
I work with individuals and couples online and in Sevenoaks (Kent) to find more insight into their relational patterns and create robust, connected and fulfilling relationships.
I’m warm, gutsy, straight talking and kind.
I’ll take the risk of saying something I think you won’t like, if I think it will really help you.
I find sometimes a bit of humour goes a long way in our work together.
There’s not much that shocks or scares me. There’s no topic that’s off the table.
I find this approach helps you develop much greater self awareness. This means you’re not operating in the dark anymore, wondering why you’re feeling this way. Greater self awareness if one of the key ways you can have deeper and more rewarding relationships.
I also finds this approach helps people feel supported in such a way that they are ready to do things differently in their lives.
You’re struggling in your relationship and need some robust support and guidance to create more intimacy and connection.
Premarital counselling is an opportunity to understand your relationship, as well as constructively exploring your expectations and beliefs about marriage or a long term relationship.
You’ve not had much (or any) sexual or romantic experience and feel a profound sense of loneliness, and lack of confidence around dating and relationships. You may find yourself starting to question whether it will ever happen for you.
You’re in a relationship and find yourself repeatedly ruminating over it and wondering if you have chosen the right partner. You may also be dealing with loss of attraction and sexual desire.
You’re in pain and feeling stuck; you’d like to understand and process how it happened. You may also be torn about staying or leaving the relationship. I work with this both in individual and couple counselling.
Whether it’s their cheating or betrayal or yours you’re probably confused as to how you got to this place. Sometimes it is the case that you have been sleepwalking through your relationship for a while and something was off before the betrayal. I work with this issue both in individual and couples therapy.
Relationships keep ending. Perhaps somewhere you‘re concerned that it might be something you‘re doing. I work with you individually to explore and work through the roots cause of these patterns.
I‘m trained to work with most issues; from anxiety, stress, depression and loss. Much of the material we work with in counselling and psychotherapy is linked.
Not only do I focus on relationships, I can also help you:
Contact
Louise Gulley
M: +44 (0) 7419 120 519
E: louise@louisegulley.com
Locations: Sevenoaks & Online.
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