We often talk about setting boundaries in relationships. They are vital. They’re the bread and butter of healthy relationships. It’s about saying “no”. It’s about stating your bottom line. It’s about making sure you’re clear on how you want to be treated, and where necessary, backing this up with clear action. I also think so … Continue reading


I think that experiencing pleasure has become an act of rebellion in our society. We often discount spending time lustfully enjoying food; telling silly stories with our friends; or hanging out with our families or partners. It’s considered a waste not an effective use of time. So many of us sadly have so much guilt … Continue reading

The Dark Goddess Series III: For the Women who refuse to play small.


Here’s this Friday’s Dark Goddess Series for the Women who Refuse to Play Small. Enjoy! The Dark Goddess twinkles with self awareness, but she doesn’t need to be in this state in a composed way. She has a dirty, loud laugh which she regularly uses to chuckle at life’s challenges and her own shortcomings. She … Continue reading The Dark Goddess Series III: For the Women who refuse to play small.